Pastor, most of us spend much of our ministries trying to earn acceptance. We want to earn it from our peers, the people in our church, and denominational leaders. The desire to be accepted drives us to do all kinds of things. It can even influence how we do ministry.
Would you agree that people do the craziest things to be accepted? As a kid you wanted so badly to be in the in-crowd that someone would say to you, “I dare you to do this,” and you’d do something stupid.
You did it because your desire to be accepted overruled the desire for personal safety in your life. When you played baseball as a kid and teams were chosen, remember how great it felt to be picked by the best player?
Remember how bad you felt when they got down to the last two or three and you still weren’t chosen?
We love the feeling of being accepted.
Being chosen does tremendous things for your self-esteem. The Bible says in 1 Peter 2:9, “You are a chosen people” (NIV). That ought to raise your self-esteem! Christ has accepted you.
This acceptance is not based upon your last sermon, the size of your church, or your popularity in the community. You can’t earn it. You don’t deserve it. God simply says, “I chose you.”
You may have accepted Jesus into your life, but have you ever realized that Christ has accepted you? You don’t have to earn it; you don’t have to prove yourself.
“Even if my father and mother abandon me, the Lord will take care of me” (Psalm 27:10 GW).
The fact is, some of you had parents whom you could never please.
No matter what you did, it wasn’t good enough. If you got Cs, they wanted Bs. If you got Bs, they wanted As. If you got As, they wanted straight As.
The tragedy is that some of you today are still trying to prove yourself to your parents.
You’re still trying to earn their acceptance, but in all likelihood, you’re not going to get their approval if they haven’t given it to you by now, because that’s their problem.
The good news is this: You don’t need it to be happy!
There are 6 billion people in the world. If two people don’t like you, who cares?
As a part of God’s family, you have been accepted by God!
Enjoy,
The Pastors.com Team
