Instead of focusing on what you don’t have and what didn’t happen, you can choose to be grateful for what you do have and what has happened.

This doesn’t come naturally, not even for pastors. The apostle Paul understands our pain. That’s why he wrote, “I have learned to be content” (Philippians 4:13).

Being content is a learning process.

It’s hard to admit we struggle with envy because it’s such an ugly emotion.

When you’re envious of others, you really want them to fail, because their failure makes you feel better about yourself.

That’s pretty crazy, isn’t it?

If we can learn to be grateful for what we have, we can begin to get rid of these feelings of envy.

It’s important to understand that envy is not about having a desire or a dream or a goal.

It’s good to have those.

Envy is not about looking forward to something or hoping that something can happen in your life or even wondering if you should have some thing.

Instead, envy is resenting somebody who has already obtained what you desire or who has reached a goal you have yet to attain.

Envy says you can’t be happy until you get that desire or reach that goal. 

The Bible tells us that we already have more than we need and far more than we deserve.

Every good thing in our lives is a gift from God, and it is up to him to decide when and how he blesses us.

It’s up to us to choose to be grateful and make the most of what we’ve been given.