As a pastor, you’ll hear a lot of opinions about who you are. Most people aren’t shy about telling pastors what they’re doing right and what they’re doing wrong.
But remember this: None of what others say about you defines you. Your identity isn’t found in your job title, your weekly sermon, or the approval of your congregation.
Your true identity is rooted in Jesus Christ.
You are a child of the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. You are a part of God’s family. You were created in his image. God loves you. That identity doesn’t change, no matter how you feel on a Monday morning after a long Sunday.
When you’re criticized, overwhelmed, or spiritually drained, you need to remember who you are. Bullies—whether they’re external critics or internal doubts—can thrive only when there’s insecurity or fear.
The Holy Spirit in you is greater than any problem or criticism you face.
Your Creator knows you. Jesus died for you. The Holy Spirit empowers you. You have the Trinity behind you. You don’t have to worry about bullies because bullies have no real power over you.
David understood this. Even though he was one of Israel’s greatest kings, his identity wasn’t in his position but in his relationship with God.
He wrote in Psalm 56: “When I am afraid, I will put my trust in you. I praise God for what he has promised. I trust in God, so why should I be afraid? What can mere mortals do to me?” (Psalm 56:3-4 NLT).
Let your identity in Christ shape your confidence, guide your decisions, and fuel your ministry. If God is for you, what can people do to you that would change who you are and how God feels about you?
Not a thing.